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Female Strap On Guide

Strap-ons are equally great for both male and female. You can use a strap-on to penetrate a partner of any gender, to subvert stereotypical gender roles, or to play around with those roles through fantasy sex play. They can use one for fun, or used to overcome erectile or orgasmic challenges. Strap-ons are really versatile and can be used for vaginal, anal, oral or manual sex, and masturbation.

Simply put, a strap-on dildo is simply a dildo that’s designed to be worn with a harness, which is then used for sexual penetration – either vaginally, anally, or both.

A strap-on is a unique couple toy with different types of harnesses and dildos available offering many sexual activities for you to achieve with them.

A female strap-on harness is worn around the hips and buttocks, allowing the dildo to be held in place and used by thrusting your hips. Similar to how you would with a penis, during penetrative sex.

What are the different types of strap-ons available?

There are many types of strap-ons on the market that can sometimes become overwhelming, especially if you are new to this type of sex toy. Here’s a brief overview:

Harnesses
The most well-known is the harness-style strap-ons, which usually have removable dildos for versatile sex play. Enjoy the ability to select a shaft that excites you most; any dildo can be used providing it has a flared base and fits your harness.
Strapless
Designed specifically for women, a strapless strap-on delivers internal stimulation for both of you. Choose from a bulbous shape or curved shape to deliver simultaneous G-spot stimulation. Unlike its harness counterpart, a strapless design leaves your body completely free. They're also available in a selection of styles and features for a shared, arousing experience.
Double Strap-Ons
The best of both worlds, a double strap-on offers dual, internal stimulation with the added security of a harness.

Types of harnesses:

Let’s start with the basics. There are two main ways a dildo can lock to a harness;

  1. O-rings locking mechanism – this is the most popular way to strap a dildo into place, it is also the most versatile as you can buy rings of different sizes in order to accommodate dildos of all shapes and sizes;
  2. Vac-u-lock – this is a new innovative way of strapping dildos into their place. Just find a dildo that is Vac-u-lock appropriate, plug it into the plug section and enjoy a new aspect of sex with your partner.

How to choose the best strap-on?

The best way to know for sure what types of strap-ons are best for you is to literally give them a ride. If lesbian couples want to be penetrated simultaneously, then they are in luck. Because vibrating double dildo strap-ons exist just for their pleasure.

Vac-u-lock strap-ons offer an easier and more carefree sexual play as the harness is sturdier and it has a plug segment that enables the possibility to just plug in your favorite penis attachment.

Harness buying tips:

  • Make sure to get an adjustable harness so you get the fit right, made from comfortable material (typically leather or nylon). The harness should be snug, to ensure you have control over your dildo.
  • Some harnesses can use with a variety of dildo sizes, while others can only use with specific dildo sizes. Make sure you understand which type you’re buying.
  • The person wearing the strap-on can get a harness with a bullet vibrator attachment. This will deliver vibrations against their clitoris. Since you won’t feel any real physical stimulation from wearing the strap-on, a vibrator can be a nice addition.

Dildo buying tips:

  • If you have a regular partner, you might want to let them pick the dildo. Since they will be the ones getting penetrate by it.
  • Make sure your dildo is made from body-safe material, typically silicone. Some sex toys made out of porous materials may release chemical compounds called phthalates. Read more about this in our Sex Toys Material Guide. Get up to 50% off on all sex toys with free delivery!
  • If you really enjoy wearing a dildo, from a roleplay or a gender perspective, you may also want to consider purchasing a soft dildo that you can wear all day. (This is often recommend to as “packing”). These types of dildos are mean to look like a real non-erect penis.

There are also various shapes of dildos available on the market:

Female strap-ons – typically for lesbian couples, but they can use for masturbation if you secure them to a pillow or some other object. There are also double penetration cock ring attachments that can add to your strap-on to ensure that your partner gets filled in both holes. Girls who love getting their G-spot pounded can opt for special curved dildos.
Male strap-ons – there are ‘hollow strap-ons’ where the person giving, puts his penis inside. Mostly used by men who have either erectile dysfunctions or want to prolong the sex or their penis length.

The style of strap-on you opt for is completely up to your personal preference. A strap-on may feel unusual at first – after all, you’re not accustom to having an erect penis down there! Once you’re familiar with the sensation, you will love the fun it creates for you and your partner.

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